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Feeling discouraged about online dating home forums dating and sex advice feeling discouraged about online dating this topic contains 24 replies, has 1 voice, and was last updated by helena 2 years, 6 months ago. It seems as if online dating is the most popular way couples meet now i am actually more surprised when i meet a couple that didn't meet online now no matter how practical and convenient online dating might be, it still doesn't mean it is healthy to use dating sites all the time. Online dating favors attractive women, and then women in general when i first started, i got about a 5 percent response rate: 5 replies for.
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